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Body Image in Marriage: What Theology of the Body Says

Wed, 10 Jun 2026 00:00:00 +0000

The Shame We Don’t Talk About

Most couples talk around it. A woman turns off the lamp before her husband can see the stretch marks that appeared after their third child. A man avoids being touched at the waist because he’s gained weight since their wedding. A couple in their fifties moves more quickly through moments of intimacy, less willing to linger in a body that seems to them like evidence of time running out.

Intimacy During Pregnancy: A Guide for Catholic Couples

Wed, 10 Jun 2026 00:00:00 +0000

There’s a particular kind of loneliness that can settle over a marriage during pregnancy — not the loneliness of strangers, but the strange distance that opens between two people who love each other and suddenly aren’t sure how to be close in the ways they used to be. Bodies change. Energy disappears. Fear moves in quietly. And both spouses can find themselves tiptoeing around each other with the best of intentions, unsure whether to reach out or give space.

Naked Without Shame: Vulnerability in Catholic Marriage

Wed, 10 Jun 2026 00:00:00 +0000

There is a single verse tucked almost quietly into the second chapter of Genesis, easy to read past: “The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame” (Gen 2:25). Two people. No concealment. No flinching. It lasts exactly one verse before everything changes.

John Paul II spent years asking what that verse actually means — and his answer, developed through the Theology of the Body, is far more demanding and far more tender than it might first appear. Original nakedness was not simply the absence of clothing. It was the absence of a need to hide. The human person, seen completely, did not need to manage the other’s perception, calculate what to reveal, or brace for rejection. That, John Paul II suggests, is what married love is being called back toward.